If you’re questioning whether you’ve chosen the right job, the right specialty, or even the right profession, you’re not alone.

Most physicians go through cycles of doubt, revisiting old decisions when things aren’t going well. That can be very normal, and over time the chances are good that these periods will become less frequent.

Dissatisfaction today doesn’t always mean that you need to make a drastic change tomorrow. Sometimes short-term pain and sacrifices are necessary to get you where you want to go.

But if this seems like a theme song that just won’t stop playing, then it might be time to rediscover your why.

Often when you feel unfulfilled or frustrated at work or in your personal life, it’s because you are not living a life that feels authentic to you.

• Perhaps you are trying to live up to someone else’s ideal

• Maybe your life has moved in a different direction since you first chose your current path

• It could be the job itself that has changed or not lived up to your expectations

• Perhaps you simply need to rediscover the reason that you chose to become a physician so many years ago

"Finding your why" is the process of discovering and understanding the deeper purpose or meaning behind your actions, goals, and choices. It's about identifying the core values and beliefs that drive you and give your life a sense of meaning and fulfillment.

This concept is often associated with personal development and leadership, and it's a key element in the philosophy of Simon Sinek, an author who has been hugely influential in the business world. Sinek argues that successful individuals and organizations are those who are able to articulate and align their actions with a clear sense of purpose or "why." In fact, one of Sinek’s most popular books is called Find Your Why.

The idea is that when you have a clear understanding of why you do what you do, it can serve as a powerful motivator and guide for decision-making. It can help you stay focused, overcome challenges, and find a greater sense of satisfaction at work and in your personal life as well.

As Sinek puts it

• Your why is your driving force

• Your how is the actions that you take to bring your why to life

• Your what is the manifestation of your why—the actual work that you do

Once you understand your why, everything else starts to make sense. Your decisions will become clearer and your actions more purposeful and meaningful.

Knowing your why is so integral to being a physician that it’s surprising this concept is not routinely taught in medical schools. Discovering your why is not a “one and done”, check-it-off-the-list sort of thing, but it’s logical and easy to understand.

The process involves introspection and reflection on your values, passions, and the impact you want to make on the world. It means going beyond your surface-level goals and digging deeper into the fundamental reasons that drive your choices and actions.

To help you find your why, get a piece of paper or a journal and start writing. You could do this on your computer or your tablet, but writing by hand tends to engage the brain more fully than typing on a keyboard, encouraging a deeper connection with the words and ideas and improving later recall. Most importantly, choose a method and a time that works for you.

Consider taking a few minutes every morning or evening to discover the patterns and thoughts that arise. Here are some questions to get you started:

• What do I find fulfilling about my current job?

• What do I not like about my current job?

• What values do I seek to honor in my work and in my life?

• What other goals and aspirations, professional and personal, do I have?

• What are my strengths, my natural talents, my soft skills?

• What strengths and talents would I like to develop further?

• What are the common ideas and threads that run through my life over the years?

• What makes me happy at work, at home, and in my private life?

• What do people thank me for?

• What do I enjoy teaching?

• What do I enjoy learning?

• What keeps me up at night?

• What moves me to take action?

• What is my ideal day?

After spending a few weeks letting these ideas gain traction, create a mission statement that will encapsulate your why in a single sentence. To get started, ask yourself what contribution you wish to make, and what impact you hope to have. It doesn’t have to be perfect, and it doesn’t have to answer to anyone else’s expectations. Your statement can be a work in progress, but it’s a great way to begin to align your goals with a purpose that is genuine and fulfilling. Over time, knowing your why can become a transformative force.  

 P.S. If you want to learn more about defining your values, click here to sign up for my free Values Workbook.

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