Journaling Prompts for Physicians: Rediscovering Your Personal Life

In an earlier article, I explored the way that journaling can help you to reconnect with your inner wisdom, helping you to find a path forward when you feel stuck or uncertain. In that article, I delved deeper into the practical mindfulness of journaling, and the benefits of writing by hand, whether in a conventional notebook or a handwriting tablet .

Journaling has been called the “paper mirror.” It reflects back to you, the writer, what you might not see of yourself. Yet unlike a true mirror, the journal’s mirror is private and personal. Given this introspective aspect, it’s not surprising that studies of people engaged in journaling have reported evidence of improvement in both psychological and physical well-being.

Of course, journaling can also resurface unpleasant thoughts and memories. That’s not always bad. Some people find the safe space of their notebook to be a perfect container for catharsis. Getting the words out of your head and onto the page can be uncomfortable, but the process may allow you to let go of those thoughts and fears that are holding you back, freeing up mental space. If it feels right, you might even want to ceremonially destroy your journal once the “bad” stuff is out.

But if it feels overwhelming or resurfaces trauma that you’ve suppressed, then journaling may also be the nudge you need to begin working with a therapist who can help you process complex memories and emotions.

In this article, I am offering prompts that will give you space to dive into your life outside of work. Let them be a scaffolding that helps you to explore the ways that personal projects, family, and relationships might intersect in your life. By intentionally putting your thoughts on paper, you may uncover ideas for mindful action that begin to align these aspects of your life with your ideal self.

Exploring Family Through Journaling

1. How do I currently nurture my relationships with my family? What more could I do?

2. What values do I want to model for my family? How can I live those values more fully?

3. What are some of the most meaningful moments I’ve shared with my family recently? How can I create more moments like those?

4. If I could describe the ideal dynamic I want with my family in one sentence, what would it be?

5. Are there any unresolved tensions or conflicts in my family relationships? How might I approach them with compassion?

6. How does my professional life affect my family life, and are there changes I could make that might bring greater harmony?

7. What are some small ways I can show appreciation to my family this week?

Journaling to Strengthen Relationships

1. Which relationships in my life feel most nourishing? What makes them important to me? How can I deepen those connections?

2. Are there relationships that feel draining or misaligned with my values? What boundaries might I need to set?

3. What does a fulfilling relationship with a romantic partner look and feel like to me? How about a friend? How do my current relationships align with that vision? How can I create more of that?

4. When was the last time I expressed gratitude or love to someone important in my life? How did it feel?

5. Who do I turn to for support, and how can I show them appreciation for being there for me?

6. Are there people I’ve lost touch with who I’d like to reconnect with? What’s one small step I can take this week to reach out?

7. What qualities do I bring to my relationships that make them stronger? How can I lean into those strengths?

8. How can I better communicate my needs, desires, and feelings in my closest relationships?

Empowering Personal Projects

1. What personal project excites me the most right now? What about it feels important or meaningful to me?

2. Are there projects I’ve set aside that I would like to revisit? What’s holding me back?

3. How do my personal projects reflect who I am and who I want to become? Where might they lead me?

4. Is there a skill I’ve been meaning to learn, a book I want to read, a trip I want to take, or something else? What small step can I take this week to make progress on something that I care about?

5. If I had unlimited time and resources, what would I pursue? Why? How might that change my life?

6. How do my personal projects bring a sense of balance to my life, and how can I prioritize them more effectively?

7. What have I learned about myself through my personal projects? What strengths or interests have I uncovered?

Integrating Self, Family, and Community

1. How do my personal projects, family, and relationships influence each other? Are they in harmony or competition?

2. How might the personal projects that inspire me connect me more deeply with people who share my passions and values?

3. What would it look like to balance meaningful work, personal growth, and rich relationships all at once?

4. What’s one thing I can do this week to bring these aspects of myself into greater alignment?

5. How do I want the people closest to me to remember me, and what can I do now to honor that vision?

I hope this list has inspired you. In a future article, I’ll provide you with a series of prompts that will help you go deeper into creating balance, fostering connections, reframing challenges, and envisioning the future.

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Connecting With Your Inner Wisdom: A Journaling Guide for Physicians

With countless demands on your time and attention, it’s easy to lose touch with yourself as you slingshot from one task to the next. This can get you through the day, but after a few months, years, or maybe even decades of living this way, it can be difficult to find your way back to your true self.

I know this, because I experienced this sense of disconnection firsthand. From starting medical school in 1984, through decades of practice, I felt as if I was on a treadmill. I was constantly striving for the next level, whatever that was, and rarely taking a chance to pause or to celebrate. I stayed active, had hobbies and friends, but it all felt pretty frantic. As I began to contemplate my life after cardiology, I wasn’t exactly sure who the “real” me was, or what she wanted next. That’s when I began journaling as a regular practice.

As a full time cardiologist with a busy practice, my days and evenings were highly regimented, with little room to add on yet another task. I was getting nowhere with perseverating over what was making me discontent, and I knew that I needed a way to sort things out.

Journaling was something that I played with over the years, but the habit had never stuck. To be honest, the empty pages always felt a little daunting. So this time, I made a commitment to myself to spend just 10 minutes a day sitting with my thoughts.

The Power of Journaling: A Path Back to Your True Self

Every evening I would pose questions to myself, trying to unravel the knots that I had tied over the years, until I rediscovered the threads that could lead me to my next steps. And remarkably, the process worked! Through introspection and time, I developed a set of goals and a sequence of tiny little steps that got me farther than I ever could have imagined.

This article is the first in a three-part series. In each one, I’ll share a different collection of journaling prompts designed to help you to connect your own dots and rediscover what truly matters to you. Whether you’re exploring a new professional path, planning for retirement, or seeking greater happiness and satisfaction in your life, these prompts will guide you towards clarity and self-awareness.

Getting Started with Journaling

Journaling is a wonderful way to access your own thoughts and values, getting in touch with what matters most to you. It’s a form of mindfulness that doesn’t require any skills or knowledge. All you need is a pen and paper and as few as five minutes.

Why do I say pen and paper, and not a keyboard? Because research has convincingly shown that writing by hand is far more activating for the brain than typing. Newer devices that save and transcribe handwriting, like the reMarkable, may help to bridge the gap between analogue and tech. If writing doesn’t come easily, you could also experiment with dictation. Most important is that you find something that works for you and feels comfortable and natural.  

Journaling to Uncover Your Next Steps

This series of prompts will help you to reflect on your values and your sense of purpose, realigning the trajectory your life into something that feels resonant and clear.

For a kick start, if you haven’t already completed the Values Workbook, this is a great time to begin that exercise. You can get your free copy through my website.

Don’t feel as if you need to take on every prompt. There’s a lot to ponder here! Perhaps choose one or two for the week and see where it takes you.

Exploring Your Values

1. What do I value most about my role as a physician? Are these values reflected in my daily work and life? If not, what changes would need to happen in order for my values to be aligned with my work?

2. If I could describe the legacy I want to leave in one sentence, what would it be? How do I want people to remember me?

3. When have I felt most fulfilled in my career? What about those moments made them meaningful?

Clarifying Your Purpose

1. Why did I choose to become a physician? Does that "why" still resonate with me today? If it has changed, does it still feel true? And if not, what is missing?

2. What parts of my work energize me the most? How can I focus more on these aspects?

3. How does my work align with my personal definition of success? Where am I now in relation to that definition?

Evaluating Your Current Path

1. If my current career trajectory continued for the next 10 years, would I feel proud and content with my life?

2. What sacrifices am I making to sustain my current career path, and are they worth it?

3. Are there aspects of my personal life or passions that I’ve neglected? How can I reintegrate them?

Imagining the Future

1. If I could design my ideal work-life balance, what would it look like? What small steps could I take to get closer to that vision? What could I do today that would start to change things?

2. Imagine a day in your dream life. What are you doing, who are you with, and how do you feel?

3. What skills or interests do I have that I’m not currently using in my career? How might I incorporate them? And what skills do I wish I had? Are they important enough that I want to explore how to acquire them?

Confronting Barriers

1. What fears or doubts are holding me back from making a change I know I need? Are these fears grounded in reality? If so, is there something within my power to change?

2. Who or what am I afraid of disappointing if I follow my heart? How might I address that fear?

3. What is the worst that could happen if I pursued a career change or took on a new role? What strategies could I take to mitigate that? Are there other opportunities that outcome might open up for me?

Building Resilience and Courage

1. When have I faced significant challenges and grown from them? What strengths did I discover?

2. What does courage look like for me right now? How can I embody it in my decisions?

3. Who in my life inspires me to live authentically? What lessons can I learn from them?

Finding Alignment

1. Are there moments in my work when I feel disconnected from my authentic self? How can I realign?

2. How do I want to feel at the end of each day? What changes would help me experience that feeling more often?

3. What small, actionable steps can I take this week to bring more meaning into my work and life?

Cultivating Gratitude and Joy

1. What aspects of my career am I most grateful for? How can I focus more on these positives?

2. When was the last time I felt joy in my personal or professional life? What contributed to that moment?

3. What can I do today to make space for more joy and connection in my life?

If these prompts have been useful, or if you have some of your own that you’d like to share, I’d love to hear from you.

In an upcoming article, I’ll share prompts to guide your exploration of personal projects, family connections, and meaningful relationships.

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